Wednesday, 15 February 2017
We're a couple of days into Half Term.
The girls have stopped the bickering they seem to do for the first couple of days when they just annoy each other and have settled into enjoying each others company.
Its in the holidays that I am racked with guilt that I can't currently take them places.
Facebook shows me the shiny snapshot of my friends lives that they want to share on social media.
The days out at castles, zoos, theme parks and the cinema. Its not that we cannot afford to take them these places but suffering from panic disorder has meant that I find it really difficult to get too far from Ashford (and in all honesty sometimes even around Ashford).
It worries me that the children will miss out.
And then I try and remember what I used to do in half terms when I was their age......and (I'm sorry Mum) but I don't remember. I'm fairly certain we didn't go out every day of the holidays as both my parents worked. I probably spent a fair bit of time at my grandparents and they certainly didn't take me on outings.
I do remember spending time with people though. I remember that my Mum used to take my Grandma to the supermarket every week (and it was weekly because Grandma couldn't/wouldn't plan a fortnightly menu) and I would sometimes go with them.
I remember helping (loose interpretation of the word) my Dad with whatever work he was doing on the house. I'm the daughter of a carpenter and I wanted to do whatever Dad did.
I remember Mum cooking Sunday lunch EVERY week - even when it was roasting outside with the Archers omnibus on the radio.
I'm sure there were plenty of outings and lots of money spent on trips out...but that is not what has built the memories. Its the time with my family that I remember.
I remember feeling loved all the time.
So - if my girls don't have the outings like their friends perhaps they're not missing out on so much after all because they are loved beyond words and THAT is what I hope they remember as they grow up.
Tuesday, 14 February 2017
Look what arrived last week!
It's time to P-A-R-T-Y!
The set comes in a nice compact box (none of this excessive packaging malarkey!) - I was really pleased when I opened it up that it wasn't all settled into a plastic tray (they infuriate me!).
The detail on this set is AMAZING.
It comes with the following:
- Table and 4 chairs
- 4 x plates / glasses / cake forks
- Jug of squash
- Sandwich platter
- Cake with 2 removable slices and a cake plate
- Pizza and pizza plate
- Serving tongs
- A table mat (paper)
- 2 x party invites (paper)
- 2 x party banners (paper)
- 2 x party hats (paper)
- 2 x presents (paper)
I just love the sandwich platter. Its so detailed (sorry for the slightly blurry photo - my phone just didn't want to do close up!)
The table itself is really big (for Sylvania!!) - it kind of has to be to fit the cake, pizza, sarnies and trifle on and allow room for plates etc).
|First look at the table and accessories|
Its a really versatile table that will look good in any of the larger family homes.
The girls set up in Beechwood Hall. I just left them to it and before I knew it extra chairs had been drafted in ready for a game of Musical Chairs.
The kids decided to set up all the party food in the dining room and pressie in the lounge ...
|The birthday banners are up and the pressie pile is accumulating.|
|The Sylvanian Families are ready for a game of "Duck Duck Goose" (I still have no idea what this game is!!)|
What would we change?
For me the paper sheets that you make the present boxes and banners etc from was a bit flimsy. Its not going to last. HOWEVER - it has given the girls ideas to make decorations of their own.
The children were disappointed that there weren't teeny tiny items to go inside the presents - perhaps a mini doll or something.
They also thought the table needed a 'proper' material table cloth (I'm raising these kids well!!!)
The kids also thought that there should be balloons since its a party. So our job for half term week is going to be to make a few teeny tiny balloons.
I love how the arrival of a new set inspires a new way of playing. It sparks their imagination.
I never suggest ways for the children to set it up or how they should play with it.
I loved seeing them create a party with party games.
I'm slightly relieved they didn't ask me to make itty bitty party bags to give to guests ;)
There is so much included for the price but lots of it consists of tiny items so is perhaps better for the more experienced collector rather than those just starting out.
Anyone else got this set? I'd love to know your thoughts.
NB - I was not paid for my review although the set was sent to me to review. These are my own opinions.